How To Win A Filipina Heart

 

Are you interesting in winning a Filipina heart?  Perhaps you just had a holiday to this part of the world and noticed how attentive and caring the women are.  Filipino women are world renown for their strong sense of family.  The are brought up with a sense of devotion, a quiet disposition and loyalty that you can only find in American women if you wind back the clock to the 1950′s.  Mix this with their tropical olive skin and alluring smiles, it is no wonder that Filipino women make perfect wives.

If this sounds appealing to you (and we can understand that it might if you have been married for the last 10 years to a woman who made your life a living hell), then your challenge is to win a Filipina Heart.  The good news is that getting started on this journey is easy.  First, click here to browse our galleries of single women.  Set up a free basic profile (it only takes a few minutes) and start searching through our female members.

When you first join you might feel like a kid in a candy store.  So many women, so little time.  Your first few days as a full member is a balance between finding a short list of women who you would be generally interested in and just enjoying all of the attention this process gives you.  After all, who would not enjoy chatting to 5 or 6 women at once.

Take the time to get know each woman and work your way down to a smaller list.  Your goal is to have either a few girls to chat to or just one if you feel a strong connection.  Now that you have a built a friendship, it is time to start building a relationship.  This is how you really win a Filipina heart -

Learn About Her Culture

To understand her, you have to understand the environment she was brought up in.  Get off the plane in Manila and you are not going to have as much culture shock as if you just disembarked in Moscow or Central Africa.  The west has had an influence here for the last 100 years and the Spanish had a presence going back a few hundred years before that.  English is the native business language and most people speak it with a slight American/Asian accent.  And the majority of the country is catholic thanks to the Spanish.  But don’t be fooled.  This is a foreign country.  And this means their are a different set of relationship rules too.

In the Philippines, girls are brought up with a strong sense of devotion to family.  This even has a name – delikadesa.  Loyalty is everything, even to the point where divorce is illegal.  And retirement homes for the aged?  They are almost non-existent.  The bulk of Filipino families live in multi-generational homes.  Ask a Filipino why their grandparents are not in a aged home and they will look at you in disgust, saying it would be cruel to abandon a family member like that.

Meeting The Family

With the importance placed on family, the transition from a friendship to a relationship comes when you want to meet her family.  To win a Filipina heart, you must show that you have genuine feelings towards their daughter/grand daughter/sister.  Take a gift as a sign of respect, especially for the male head of the household.  He is typically the head of the family and the primary bread winner.  Get onside with him and you will go a long way to sealing the relationship between you and his daughter.

Are you interested in meeting a Filipino girl?  Click here to view the profiles of our Asian members.